FLTC, I know the finances are important, and all the details will fill your mind constantly but I just wanted to say how sorry I am to hear that your W was unfaithful. I'm sure you suspected it, just as we all do in these sitches, but when you really find out the truth it's the biggest kick in the gonads you can get. Take care of yourself FLTC, the road will get smoother. Heal my man.