Are you really standing Trusting? I like what others have said. H I am sorry you feel that way. Instead you pushed it in his face about the mistakes of the past.

Forget the past Trusting! It's done and you can't change it. YOu will never be able to heal if you hang onto the anger and you forever hold up a wall between you and your h. I can just feel the heavy wall in your posts.

Give your h some credit. He admitted his life is not great. That is a huge step for a man. Thank him for admitting that.

If you want to reconnect it won't happen the way you are proceeding. Just my thoughts!


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"