(Metal note, breaking wind is no longer an option).
Good idea Lan........lol. Most women do not find that amusing. I have to say that in all the years that I've been M--my H has not been one to do that in front of me or anyone! I have never told him that I appreciate him respecting me in that way (lol), but I think I will now.
I just wrote to a man in "newcomers" forum. He is waiting on his DB book and was asking some questions about detaching, GAL, etc. Why don't you look him up and just read that last post I sent him.
His name is Stillfighting.......and I can't remember the name of his title......let me go look (lol) be right back.
Okay, it is "Help, I need advice fast" by stillfighting. In fact, Lan, you could probably be encouraging to him. I did not think to tell him not to break wind in front of his W while he is trying to do all this self-improvement....lol. What a character you are!
Listen sweetie, don't let it get you down too much about the birthday thing. You do still have to think of her as a WAW and in her mind she is fighting that so hard. She is not back on track a 100% yet and it's going to be a bumpy ride still. But, wow, she made up for it the next morning. Maybe she is one of those morning gals that wake up with all the right hormone urges. I have been known to wake my H up in the wee hours of the morning, but after the light comes out.....so does the bad breath...ugh! (lol)
Maybe she got to thinking about how you and the D put so much effort into her homecoming birthday surprise and how she didn't really show her appreciation. We never know what goes through another person's mind. But, I'm glad you were there in the right place at the right time the next morning!
Keep up good work and keep the farts to yourself....lol.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!