Cake eating or progress?

[Trixi]

Whatever you decide to do, let us know, I'm getting worked up just wondering.

LOL- thanks Smartcookie. I'm pretty worked up myself!

Unfortunately, I tried a couple different ways to invite myself over there and he was clear that he didn't want me to come over-so showing up with something to help him relax would be VERY unwelcome. AND, when we hung up, things were VERY tense between us-- Clearly, he is feeling pressured by me and is backing off.

I just need the "perfect" reason to call him; he's no dummy, though, and he would see right thru it- which would probably only irritate him further and create more pressure.

I still can't figure out how accurate the match.com 24 hour thing is. They do have one FAQ question "What does "online now" mean?" and their answer was that it means they were/are online within the past hour, but sometimes the computer will have delay in posting, so it might be more than an hour.