I didn't mean to get defensive, just to point ou tthat I do a lot of the things that I thought were trouble spots. One problem is that when I focus on things that I think are important to her, the target changes, or at least it feels like it does. That's one of the things that I have to figure out how to deal with. Which leads to me doing what I need to do for me, which I hope will also be helpful in getting the things that she sees as important get done. I'm tired of doing things that she wants, with no sign of appreciation. I think that may be the passive aggressive thing the C referred to today. I will have to talk about that with her some more, how do I deal with it?
