How suspicious is THIS: H and I spoke this afternoon. He did tell me that he is exhausted, etc and possibly "allergic to work" ha ha. So the plan was that he would come to my house at 6pm, we would figure dinner out and then meet friends at the karaoke bar.
At 6:13 he calls to say he doesn't feel well. He wants to just 'chill out' and will maybe come to the bar around 9:30 and he'll text me and let me know. I say that we don't have to do anything crazy..I could come over there or something and he says "no- I just want to chill out." I say something to indicate disappointment and he says "we're going to see eachother tomorrow." I reiterate that I would be happy to go over to his house and hang and he again said no. I then pointed out that one of the friends was counting on selling him some dragons and he says "yeah, that's true. She was probably counting on that money. OK- I will meet you there at 10pm. OK?" I mumble and he says "ok-see you later." and hangs up in a bad mood.
What's this sound like to you?????? *I* am now thinking he has a date lined up for tonight. I can't do a driveby on the house because the car he would use stays in the garage, so I would have no way of knowing if it was gone or not.
There is a chance that he really DOES just want to chill out and maybe jam on his guitar; but doesn't it seem a little bit fishy??
Ok- now I'll read what you wrote Dom.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing