Bravo Mark. Be as open as possible. I know it must hurt but try. I know that is what I would want from my H. I also think it is ok to let your H know that it hurts. My husband says just because he doesn't show that he is hurting, doesn't mean that he doesn't hurt. Even just seeing one tear would help a great deal, because right now he has shut himself off to me as far as feelings go. I'll keep checking in. kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
