Okay, Potato - I know this is the sex-starved forum, but it seems to me you and everybody else are missing the point by focusing on the sex.
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I think the only reason we had sex this month was because it was my birthday, and she didn't get me a gift.
What kind of woman doesn't buy her husband a birthday present, especially in the first years of marriage???????
This certainly makes me think there are issues here deeper than sex. Reminds me of my first year of marriage, when H was "too busy" to remember Valentine's Day. Granted, we WERE both very busy as medical students working insane hours - so I made all kinds of excuses why he was too busy to write me a love note or pick me a flower from the neighbor's yard. Later I learned the sad truth, he was mooning over an ex-girlfriend he'd slept with the night before our wedding.
As for your wife's suicide attempts - DO NOT take them lightly. If she's depressed enough to consider suicide or say the words, she NEEDS HELP. Depression (and, ironically, anti-depressant medication) cuts libido. If you think she's seriously depressed or unhinged, get her to some help.
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I'm sure if anyone were to ask her, she would say she has never felt unloved.
Not so fast there, buddy. I'm pretty sure she felt unloved when she found out you were using porn. Maybe her simmering resentment over this is why she didn't buy you a birthday present? Or maybe she is a video game addict.
Whatever it is - I think your marital problems go way beyond sex. DO NOT make a baby with this woman until you have gotten this all worked out. INSIST on some GOOD marriage counseling (look carefully - bad counseling is worse than none).
