Confused no longer - Give me the strength

[Snow White]

I go over all the time, and I take D with me.

He of course has never been on this site so likens it to a chat room and thinks that I am being niave.

I told him I invited her cause I noticed in her signature block she was a Bills fan(how can you go wrong!) so I figured she was from around here.

I actually just phoned my mom and asked her to watch D. Although I have yet to file the separation papers it does mention in them that you need the permission of the opposite parent to take the child out of the country. I guess his concern is valid given his ignorance of the situation so I told him I would be going alone. He thanked me.