for better,for worse,for (what)ever

[seekpeaceofmind]

Thanks, Evie. You are getting a lot of conflicting advice and, honestly, I don't really understand some of it - or, at least, I'm not seeing through the same lens. Some of the feedback you've gotten seems kind of harsh, to me. I recognize, though, that people on here are really trying to be helpful and give others a much needed "wake up" call sometimes. I wanted to say that all you can do is take in what seems helpful to you and leave what doesn't ring true. In the end, you know yourself best and only you can decide what will work for you. I just want to be supportive as you go through this very difficult time. *hugs*