Steelers you have been at this a really long time. I think your situation is prime for turning the tables. You should stick to your position of it's time h to make a decision or how many more years are you willing to go on like this.

At some point there is only so much you can put up with or help and support. The other spouse must meet you half way.

Just thoughts! You did the right thing last night, now don't entertain communication with him. Let him make a choice and come to you or not!


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"