H is Having Affair after all - Part 2

[seekpeaceofmind]

Maybe I'm lacking in perception, but I'm not really seeing a problem with anger in you - in fact, I think anger is normal and, depending on what you do with it, healthy in your sitch. You should be angry - but if you turn it inward it may lead to depression and if you give too much outward expression to it, it will interfere with your life. You need to find the right place for you to express it - in C, with BF, in exercise, in journalling, etc.

Its a year since today since the first bomb. I just thought that I would be further along than I am by now, yet i'm still unable to make decisions.

I know what you mean - I think we want it to be over, too (like the WAS only different :(), but it's not. There is no schedule for going through this process and a lot of the advice you see talks about a couple of years to really see change. Plus, your sitch has changed significantly in the last couple of months. Let it be. . . .