You are so close to being my W. We too met in college as well and used to go the library together. She too has forgoten what we had so long ago. We tried to talk about it at the last counseling session, but WAW is too into OM right now, she even writes that she gets turned on just thinking about him... if that doesn't shoot your ego down.
Like H4H, I am working on friendship, hoping that WAW will come out of the fog - I am not as hopeful as some!
CBK
M=46 W=47 M=24 (together 26) D21, S19 Bomb 3/16/08 OM 3/28/08 WAW moved out 5/16 Divorce final 10/09
