My H disregarded me, not the kids. He always tries to make the time for them, but didn't/doesn't for me. In the big picture, he's got a pretty good work/life balance with family, just not with wifey.

Jen, how that will change is if we are done, when he has the kids, he's responsible for them. Sorry if Houston calls, he'll have to say "no" or find somebody else to send. If he has to go to a big-wig dinner, he'll have to get a babysitter, not change days with me.


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.