Sorry, I did not read your old posts. Maybe before my time here. So based upon your username, sorry I have to ask; you guys have never had sex? Or it has been so long that you feel like a virgin wife?
I am sorry I don't have much to offer in the way of insight but trust me, it is not you. My heart goes out to you that you are in this situation. Please let us know how things finally resolve themselves.
Best of luck to you.
Me 44 She 46 S13 D9 M18 T23 3 years DB'ing Successfully busted