I know the withdrawel is normal, but really...how long does it continue?
Maybe he did freak out about the planned R talk. It just irritates me. He was the one that brought up moving in together. Maybe he is rethinking.
When we talked about the check before he asked if he could just get a playstation game out of it and then I could have the rest (I know...that is REALLY what he needs), and I said yes. He did get the message today that I wasn't going to half it with him. So then he said "So, we gonna go get my present tonight?!?" I just told him I don't know. I just feel like he is only nice to me when he wants something.
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How did your H react to your medical problems when they happened? Was maybe not having kids something he always accepted or do you think that is/was an issue for him?
You know, H is very adamant about NOT having kids....but he used to really want them. Now that you mention it, I am trying to pinpoint when his attitude changed. I found out about the possible infertility/complications when H was in Iraq. I was devastated. I had to tell H this over the phone, and I remember he didn't say much. I remember being very upset because I needed him to comfort me, but he just kind of acted like it was no big deal. Maybe that was his way of showing me that it wasn't an issue for him...or maybe it was his way of trying to not let it be an issue.
