Cake eating or progress?

[Dom R]

I am overlooking the two women he slept with that were "half my age" because I know his frame of mind was that we were on a fast track to divorce and he considered himself to be single. If he is back out there trying to hook up with more women, then I need to drop out of his life.

At an emotional level, I agree with that statement.
It sounds like he is.

Checking that thing, NOW, of all times?
That's bad.
And it is in no way "innocent", particularly given his past history with you.

He screwed around on you.
He LIED ABOUT IT to you, during and after he was doing it.

He's probably going to lie about it to you again, if he's going to do it.

This might be the time for you to draw your line in the sand. Get him to truly "commit", or not commit.
That means, "NO MORE DATING SITES". Or bar hopping. Or anything else that is clearly (in another guy's opinion) designed to pick up other women.

[wasnt he the one who said, he wanted to see you being "stronger"?]

and then do like your mom says, and let him miss you, if he doesnt.

He's being a total jerk by doing this again to you.
You've given him everything, and he's using you. again.
Personally, I think you should bring back your 'joke' profile and let him see it

Since we're exclusive, I disabled my yahoo acct and would appreciate if you would the same to your match acct." I should say it without being pissy or whiny.

What do you guys think?

i think you should be stronger. I think you should say, that you expect him to do so, or you are no longer exclusively dating.

Then put up your own serious dating profile. On Match.
Really put in what kind of man you are looking for, to spend the rest of your life with.

See what happens.