Originally Posted By: ms ladybug

Dom, I'm really bad about telling him exactly what needs to be done. My thought is, "look around." If you see dishes in the sink, do them. If you see the floor looks dirty, vaccuum or mop. Are men really that clueless?


Yes. Yes, we are




PS: housekeepers clean, if your house needs cleaning. but if you just need help with "clutter"... they do that too!

PPS: I have tourettes. sounds like he MIGHT have it. feel free to ask me questions about it.
You might ask him gentle questions about it, too.
it can be very mild, to very strong.
I've almost never had the "yell obscenities" part, though.

OCD? yes.
yelling rude things? no.

(yelling non-rude things to get stress out... yes.)

its usually the worst in childhood.

Last edited by Dom R; 05/09/08 06:38 PM.
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Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle