I'm really pi$$ed off. Whenever I need H to look after D he has "plans" His idea of helping me is to drop her off at his parents house and then he can continue with his plans. He spends Sundays with her and that's it. He tells me he regrets not spending time with her and then when given the chance he bails out. Try as I do he doesn't "get it". I told him we should work something out with D in terms of child crae. He then turns around and makes it as if I don't want her with me. I told him people who are separated have these sorts of agreements. He told me that's my opnion and I'm wrong.
I'm thinking I should get this part legalized. He thinks that I'm trying to control him and telling him when he should spend time with D is controlling. I just want an agreement that covers the weekends. Why should he get to do whatever he wants and not play dad. He's a good dad but I wish he'd support me a bit more here.
I guess I'm asking for too much. I'm a wreck. Been crying since I spoke to him an hour ago. I hate this.
Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
