I've got to focus

[Maya44]

I don't know who that is.

[Jack_Three_Beans]

Self Help guru, makes millions of dollars, lives in Hawaii. I swear the man could find the good in a newsreport of a meteor hitting the Earth...

He'd be like, "Well, the bees needed a shot at evolution."
And then he'd write a book about self help for the lonely bees.

[Maya44]

I looked him up. I think I've seen him on PBS here actually. I signed up for his e-newsletter. Have you visited his site? Is there a way to get those daily meditations emailed to you instead of going to the site each day?

[Jeanette1120]

my cell phone is in 2 pieces

Quick

I need a self help book

[Maya44]

Are you making fun?

[Jack_Three_Beans]

Ahh...do I seem like the type of person who needs someone who lives in a mansion in Hawaii to tell me how special I am?

“All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness or frustration. You may succeed in making another feel guilty about something by blaming him, but you won't succeed in changing whatever it is about you that is making you unhappy.”
- Wayne Dyer

More for you : )

[Maya44]

Wow. Really, wow.

[Jeanette1120]

not making fun at all dar!

actually self help books are great if you can take the time slow down and process them!

[Maya44]

I write alot down or highlight parts that hit me. All because I know I won't remember everything. My memory is already leaving me and I'm only 34!

[Jeanette1120]

we tend to block out the painful stuff.

I forgot the entire first year....it's coming back in drips n drabs.

you have simply got to focus on what it is that will make/keep dar happy.