The detaching has really helped me. Now working on the GALing. That is my hard one. Since we have been together, no nights out with the boys. Everything done together. She used to get mad at me that I wouldn't just take the kids and give her a day. Those were just a few of the things she wanted me to do. I now see wdid's list of stuff. Her list was eye opening.
I just forwarded WW a funny text. I think I sent it correctly. We'll see if she responds. She has to turn her ringer off when at work, so she may not see for a while.
I feel like, if I can at least rebuild our friendship, then maybe something can come of it. Problem is that we always seem to have our friendship. I know she cares for me and loves me, she is just somewhere else being confused. Just slightly beyond my reach.
If she doesn't come out of it, then I will keep up the friendship for now, then give her my own WHAMMO!
CBK, I forget that your thread is on newcomers. I havent visited for a while. Will try to get to later.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."