file and show him whatever paperwork they give you when you file, put it with his damn things on the porch.
I'm sorry you are going through this hon, going dark on him just allowed him to do whatever the heck he wanted without being accountable to you about where he's been.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.