(((((((((Sara))))))))

I am so sorry to learn of your H's most recent stupidity. I tend to agree with what was said above re: changing the locks. I KNOW you feel like you're breaking the law by doing this, but I truly feel the police (should your H call them) will be supportive of you and try to work out a compromise with you and H.

Your H cannot be allowed to continue to do this to you. It is affecting EVERY MOMENT of your life. THAT should be illegal. His behavior should be against the law. This is so infuriating. I'm so sorry that he continues to hurt you. I think it's time for your ACTIONS to really speak to him. Hopefully it will be the wake up call he needs.

I KNOW this is so hard for you. I wish I was located where you are so I could physically support you, but we are here for you online.

Be strong. Think of YOU. Step out of your comfort zone.

((((((((Sara)))))))


M: 37
H: 36
Married: Aug 13, 2004
Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008
Reconciled: September 2008
Current: Ambivalence