Our calls only happen at the end of the work day when she is getting ready to leave work. I don't call her during the day and she doesn't call me. We used to talk during the day or I would email or text something every day. Recently I was doing this until about two months ago, when our big D argument first started. Talks before had been about separation. Before that arguement, I was really pursuing and it was then that I realized the backfire of my actions.
Our phone calls recently have only been business like, but I have been trying to change this. More conversation and longer. This has only been the past week or so. Our phone calls now are only about 5-20 minutes long, but with good talk. At home, sporadic but good.
I want to start texting her again, but I am trying so hard not to pursue. Maybe start with forwarding funny stuff I get. I used to end every thing with "..Love, R". No more.
I would love to talk to her more and have lunches with her again. Just chit chat when free. Maybe soon.
What do ya'll think?
In fighting for the kids, I mean that if she wants to D, I want joint custody, but them to live at home with me. Even if she wants to seperate. However or whatever I have to do. Let the attorney's handle that part.
If it has to get to that point. I pray it doesn't.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."
