He has said in the past that if I tried to lock the doors on him, he would just call the police.
This is a scare tactic. He's threatening you because he knows he can get away with it all and you will do nothing because that is how it has ALWAYS been.
Like I said in my previous post to you - even if he did call the police, I cannot see them putting you in jail once they've heard your side of things. I really don't believe that they would want to and they would help you and H come to some kind of a compromise for the night (should you change the locks, lock the screens, or whatever). They might even suggest that you let him in to get a few things then he has to be the one to leave for the rest of the night.
It might not be as bad as you fear, Sara, and if anything, your actions will get your H thinking.
And I agree with Michelle. Go to your guitar lesson this evening. You MUST continue to GAL, even when you don't feel like it. Don't be stubborn (like me!). MAKE yourself. You need to give yourself that break from your sitch.
(((Sara)))
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
