How do they walk away?

[Treese]

So today my D15 gave me a note that said she was not very happy today.....I work at the school she goes to so she can come in the office whenever she needs me...

She told me her dad left her a message last night and told her he missed her...I asked if she talked to him and she said no, she didn't want to....and then she said, "am I supposed to"....I explained to her that it is her relationship with her dad and she is to do what she feels she can do right now...she can't get over the fact that he is staying over night with OW while he is still leagally married....all he tells her is he is only married on paper and mom needs to quit fighting for him...yes, he told her this and told her he has a girlfriend blah, blah, blah....and he wonders why she doesn't want to speak to him....we were all raised Catholic and my daughter has a very strong faith like myself....

I just told her the devil has entered dads head....we just have to pray God can take over...

Anyway....H hasn't really talked to me much lately....really becoming increasingly distant....does that happen....or is it their way of telling you they're done....He isn't even interested in speaking to me....He has never called to talk to me or see how I was doing...Do they really not care, or is it the guilt and hearing your voice reminds them of what they are doing???


Treese