Update: Things have been going great with H and I for this last week. He has put his wedding band back on and I didnt even ask him to. He also brought me a dozen roses yesterday, it was so nice. I feel like we are definetely moving from friends to dating/romance and I am liking it. It doesnt seem like its too fast, it just feels right this time. I am so full of hope that this time will be the final time that we reconcile. I have seen many good signs from H and from god. I am so happy that I found this site and Michele's books, they have been one of the biggest blessing's in my life. TIPPER p.s. I am feeling pretty confident - but I still appreciate any and all advise from those of you that have had more time at peicing than I.