How do I get past the fact that it is illegal for me to do this? He has the right to call the police and I could be arrested for not allowing him access to his home. (I have talked to the lawyer about this on Monday). It sounds easy to put his stuff in boxes and change the locks, but by law it is not allowed. That is why I keep saying that I am trapped and have no choices. I don't want to go to jail over this. I just want the man out of the house until he can get his act together. Even if I lie (which I have vowed not to do during this because HE is the liar, not me) and said that I lost my keys, I will have to allow him into the house. It is his house as much as it is mine.

My only choice is to file for a divorce, which will take 4-6 weeks before things get going to get him out. I can't handle another 4-6 weeks of this. See why I feel like I have no choices and am trapped?

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08