Yes, I don't talk to him in front of the kids about any of this.

He text me this am to let me know he is in transit back to our city. He sent me a text last night after our phone conversation saying he enjoyed talking to me.

I really think he doesn't like to be alone, but I don't want to be the replacement for "her". He doesn't want that either and acknowledges those feelings too. It's good that he is awake enough to see that as a possibility. He doesn't want to cloud his decision to break it off with her with needing to come back to me. He wants those to be separate acts.

I think those are good signs.


M:47
M:18
D16, S19
1st S 1/08-5/08
Reconciled/May 7, 2008
Left again Nov 9, 2009
I Filed: Nov 17, 2009
Final: April 14, 2010
EX walked away from kids too