he emailed me alot yesterday and was so friendly and now nothing since 4pm yesterday
Did I miss something or weren't you supposed to be dark unless it had something to do with D7?
I don't get why you keep playing footsies with him and then getting upset when he's done with the meal and leaves the table. It is inevitable that he will disappear so why keep subjecting yourself to it, Dar? It is a matter of respect. A real friend wouldn't all of a sudden disappear and not talk to you or all of a sudden start being a sh*t for no reason. Let me put it this way: picture a chihuahua. You know how they keep coming back and jumping up at your ankles? Even if you kick them off, they keep coming back just as happy as before they got kicked. So maybe they get kicked harder - but the thing keeps coming back begging for the attention. You are like that where your H is concerned. You lap up any crumb he drops. He ultimately kicks the crap outta you for no apparent reason - but you still keep running back the second he gives you any positive attention. This is a matter of self-respect and self-preservation. STOP letting him do it or you'll be crying by Monday because he lashed out at you again. The power is yours. Draw some friggin boundaries. If it doesn't pertain to D7 - DIRECTLY - ignore him.
You think that's rude? So what. Do it anyway. Not as a strategy of DBing but out of respect for yourself.
