What else does your H want? Looks to me as though he wants someone to take notice of him. He wants attention, and I think he wants YOUR attention, but after reading the e-mail, he now fears that he might not get it.
He knows I won't listen to my mother. My mom has actually been preaching the "cut him off" idea for months now. My mother and I have a very strained relationship right now because her controlling nature is being challenged to the nth degree with my sitch between H and I.
He saw the email early on in our trip; we have been back about a week and half and I have in no way tried to curtail our interactions. If anything, he is feeling pressured by my impatience.
Great. now that I wrote that, ("...he's feeling pressured") I have to question the wisdom in asking any questions whatsoever. Ridiculous. If my GF said that her BF was on match, I would be like "kick him to the curb! get rid of him! what a jerk!" and yet here I am, ready to just ignore the whole thing. Why am I holding my H to lower standards than I would a BF?
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
