Gave me the ILYBNILWY. Can't love me the same way I love her. She has SAID that she will move out of the house with the girls come beginning of summer since I say that I won't leave. She no longer wants to be married. Her affair has quite possibly been only emotional. She has stated this before, but hard to believe that is hasn't been physical at least once.
My plan.
Keep her in the house with the kids. Become friends again. Best friends. I have done this before, but I did it wrong. I got there, and then pushed it and pursued big time after I heard a VM from OM about how much he loved her and before long it will be her and him and the kids. She felt like I was more of a brother and of course, the pursuing backfired. I think that as long as I have her home, we have a chance. I have told her that if she pursues D, then friendship is over and I will fight for custody of D's. On this I have been firm.
Also, killing her with loving kindness and acts of service.
Last edited by hopeful4her; 05/09/0803:24 PM.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."
