my MC told stbx that as long as he kept the ow around things would not improve between us. Your H could be in a transition though, seeing who he wants to be, I think you brought it up in a good way.

Quote:
and I don't want to get their hopes up.

as far as I've learn, even after D kids still hope the parents will get together, though I see what you are saying, maybe when you can have convos with him without the kids around


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.