I will try to see the good that could come from this situation and search for my purpose.
I had an intersting thought the other day. It was that somehow going through this and the way I handle things would make a difference later on (and a big one) to one of my D's. That thought has really made me think about what I'm doing and why.
I know the C and DB thing can be tough dollar wise. It is for me too. I'm always weighing what I'm getting out of it vs what I pay. It sure makes me think things trhough and try things on my own before I call.
I completely understand what you mean about this board. I don't know where I'd be now without it. The generosity and honesty of some amazing folks has gotten me through some dark times and been a rope to help me climb out of some deep pits.
