I just TM H saying "You need to get what you need out of the house today. You will not be able to get back in later tonight."

I am so tired of all this. Both pysically and emotionally. I need him to leave for as long as he continues to play these games. I don't care anymore if he calls the police on me. He IS abusing me emotionally and I can tell the police that he hasn't been home in 3 days and I am not sure what he is capable of anymore.

My only choice is to lock the screen doors, which I guess he could break open.

It just isn't right that he can stay out all night and waltz into the house like nothing happened. And do is friggin laundry.

Sara

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08