so pissed at h! why shouldn't I have seen this coming?? He just called and said he wants to go to another Suburu dealership (that's and hour and a half a way from me and since I have no car and can't get there) to "comparison shop". You know, this is how is ALWAYS been, throughout the marriage. When we bought our first suburu about 3 years ago, I thought the salesman was going to commit suicide, h gave him such a hard time.
but here's the thing - -WE'RE NOT IN NYC ANYMORE -- I NEED A CAR AND HE KNOWS THIS!!!
I'm furious. The only way I can get the car is if he comes out to this area and dealership so I can go with him to obviously drive the car home.
This is SO HIM. NOt just post-bomb -- but it's always been this way. He's a major control-freak. God, I'm furious.