IMO he needs to know about this aspect of her personality, and the sacrifices she expects him to make for their r (small case intended). That said - I don't think you should be the one that gives him that information. Uh - this is pretty devious, but do you think he could find the printout accidentally? Even if he dismisses the information, or gets angry at you for contacting her, the seed will be planted. LMJ
I have actually been trying to think of a way for him to find this "accidentally." The email came after H moved out. I was so upset when I read it that I instinctively deleted it after I forwarded it to my attorney. He has a hard copy, but the actual email is gone. I now have a hard copy as well. I just need to figure out how he will "accidentally" find it.
You have all given me tremendous advice and insight. THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart. I appreciate being in your thoughts and prayers I too, ask everynight for all of my fellow DBers to have the strength to get through another day. I also took some advice from the MLC forum and have started reading "The Five Languages Of Love" and "Not Just Friends" Both seem very insightful. I chose to read "Languages" first. I'll let you know if either of these books are helpful to my sitch. Thanks again DBers!! You guys are my inspiration at present!
Me 41 H 42 T 21 yrs M 16 yrs S15, S11 Bomb 1: Not happy 09/06 Bomb 2: Not in Love 02/08 Bomb 3: Admits to EA, poss PA? with OOW 03/24/08 Moved out 04/11/08 (our 16th wedding anniversary) Go Bills! Go Sabres!
I too, ask everynight for all of my fellow DBers to have the strength to get through another day. I also took some advice from the MLC forum and have started reading "The Five Languages Of Love" and "Not Just Friends" Both seem very insightful. I chose to read "Languages" first. I'll let you know if either of these books are helpful to my sitch. Thanks again DBers!! You guys are my inspiration at present!
