I know this is about regrets but I am GLAD I took a tough stance with my spouse when the bomb hit - if he could have, he would have cake eaten - WTF not?

It still took me/ still is taking me quite a bit of time to get over certain aspects of him having an A and bits of DBing have really helped me with those.

My biggest regret was spending so long feeling I should forgive the OW. It held me back and let her reside in my head far too long. Once I forgave MYSELF for not forgiving OW, (hope that makes sense), I started to move on again.

I haven't done anything mean to OW. I know that she is so horrid that she will eventually get what she deserves from someone else, (wouldn't mind being tipped the wink so I could see it happen tho' ;\) ).

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength