Ugggh! Things just keep getting worse and worse. H rolls in at 5:30am (can't tell me he was at a bar THIS time!). I hear a sound...the washing machine! WTF!!! He comes home at 5am to do laundry! Well that was it. I got up and he is in bed pretending to be asleep. I flip on the light and very calmly tell him,
"This is not a hotel. You cannot come in and do your laundry and then not come home again. If this is what you want to do, maybe you should stay at your new girlfriends house and not come back here."
"I don't have a girlfriend"
"Then where have you been for three days? (no answer) Well you aren't welcomed here as long as you keep doing this."
"OK. I need to get to sleep."
"Unbelieveable."
And I went to the couch and cried for awhile. I am thinking that I might just go ahead and lock the doors and see what he does. If he calls the police, I can say that I was scared for my safety because I didn't know where he was or what he is capable of. I just know that this has gotten old.
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08