Have exchanged a couple of texts with H regarding financial issues and I am struggling with his 'indifferent' tone which he has whenever we interact. He's not angry or upset towards me, there is just no emotion whatsoever. In his mind it is definitely over between us.
I think the problem with my sitch is because he first 'announced' that he wasnt sure how he felt anymore back in Feb 07, in his mind for the past year or so he has been working on his marriage and his feelings and now knows for certain we don't have a future. He has no doubts at all. In his words, he is 'past it'. Although the last year hasnt been great, I had no idea he was still feeling like that, and I feel that I have been lulled into this false sense of security and WHAM, now this again. This is why he is so adamant he won't come back-in his mind he knows I don't make him happy anymore.
I guess what I'm trying to say is the vibes I'm getting from H is that he has already moved on (esp now OW is on the scene). He is not unsure about his decision at all.
How do I come back from this?!
Sorry for waffling
Lea xxx
Me-26 H-27 T-10 years M-20 months First bomb-Feb 07 Second bomb-March 08
