Well, not to sound as though I'm retracting my words from yesterday....
There are times when a line needs to be drawn.
I believe that all of us have admired your ability to continue to allow your husband to be fully involved with the family on weekends, even while he lives separate from you throughout the week.
Our fears in part were perhaps that your husband was deciding that this kind of arrangement was satisfactory to you.
I recognize the confusion you say he is going through. I appreciate that he is messed up inside. This still does not make his actions something that should be ignored or allowed.
At some point even the most messed up MLC'er has to know that you cannot profess your love for one person while sleeping/living with another. Confusion does not excuse everything.
Perhaps this will be an action that upsets HIS apple cart and causes him to take a step of commitment one way or the other.
You of course realize that ultimatums are only effective if you have the strength to carry them out.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
