I know exactly how you feel T. When I told my H the other week that I will agree to the D after all it was b/c I suddenly thought 'this man does not deserve me and I deserve better'.

I'm currently confused about whether I will continue to stand after the D and this is partly b/c unlike some I have seem to have lost my faith throughout all of this. Clarity will come but it isn't there yet.


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15