It is a struggle that gets easier but doesnt go away. You have seen with me, that I seem to be moving along nicely but there is still kinks there. You just get better at dealing with them.
It will get easier, you will be stronger for this. You will have a better R with you W when this is over.
Give her the space for now. It really is true that if you stop pushing then she will stop moving away.
Speak soon
Wrists starting to ache now.
Steve
Me 27 W 30 M 2yrs/ T 5yrs Expecting our first child Sept 08 warning bomb (has feelings for someone) 21/12/08 I found out about OM (by snooping) 14/1/08 Living together.