Sf I agree totally with ACJ. MLC or not, this is unacceptable, and shows no respect for you, the kids, himself or the OW. Recovery has to start somewhere. However messed up he is, he is abusing everybody emotionally by his vacillating behaviour. Love the sinner, but NOT the sin.
No more texting. If he still needs the time it cannot any longer be at everyone's expense. That, as you know, is cheap grace.
