SF (((((((((hugs)))))))))))). IMO you did the right thing. It may not feel like it at the moment but something had to change. Your H had to know how you really felt about your sitch. He needs to know that cake-eating is not acceptable.

I think you do right not to text him anymore not b/c you might say something else you have potential to regret but b/c he needs to know you mean what you said and also that you acknowledge that this is indeed his decision to make and he has to make it (soon in my opinion)

Take care.


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15