Originally Posted By: Starshyne
Well...I did it. I have not called or TM or contacted H in any way for over 24 hours now.


Yay, Sara!

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I am working on it, but detatching isn't easy. I physically can do it, but the emotional part is difficult.


You are absolutely right, and we can all totally empathize. Give it time, and it will get easier.

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This might sound childish, but oh well. I hid the laundry detergent that I just bought. I see that H's dirty clothes are piling up (obviously since he doesn't come home) and he is eventually going to need to do his laundry. (I have stopped doing that for at least 3 weeks now) And I don't want him using my soap. He can go get his own soap...he is lucky to be using free water so I am not going to let him use the soap too.

On the back porch, he has stacked up a bunch of cups and mugs that I think were in his car. I don't know why he didn't take them inside the house, but I am not doing that either.


\:o Wait - who wrote this??? WHAT??!!!! You did, Sara??!!! \:o

Just my opinion, but I, for one, do not think this is childish at all! I am SOOO glad to see that you are beginning to take action and make your H face the consequences of his!

You go, girl!!! You rock!

(((((((YAY FOR SARA!!!!)))))))

Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell