Moving to my new abode in a couple of weeks. Everything else is the same as it has been for the last 18 months. XW is consolidating her life, as I am my own. Been spending a lot of time interstate for work, then spending all of my free time with DD, so not much time for anything else.
XW has increased her phone calls to me, for meaningless chit chat. And also won't stop staring at me whenever we are in the same room. I don't mean to be a kill joy to other people on this board, but I did reach closure some time ago, and my morals and values are far to strong to change these feelings.
DBing over the last several months has been for my benefit only, and has conditioned me to not make the same mistakes in my future relationships. I have a wonderful new home, amazing DD, fantastic network of family and friends and have been advancing myself at work (all of these incredible changes would not have happened if I was still with XW). I really do think maybe it was for the best (in my sitch only, not to dampen anyone else's efforts in their respective stiches).
