Okay- just got off the phone with my girlfriend who walked me thru a game plan. First off, she said that it could be "innocent" in that he might have logged on just out of curiosity. I know that I, myself, have gotten emails saying "someone looked at your profile" and I have logged in just to see who it was. And I had NO intention of going out with whomever it was.
So her suggestion was that the situation is really two fold. The first question to ask is "Are we dating exclusively?" If the answer is "Yes", then the second question/statement is "Because I knew you had been on match previously, I was curious and saw that your profile is still active. Since we're exclusive, I disabled my yahoo acct and would appreciate if you would the same to your match acct." I should say it without being pissy or whiny.
What do you guys think?
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
