Do I put myself out there to get burned again?

[sandycay]

Well, another interesting conversation tonight on the phone. He asked me to spend the day with him on our boat on Wednesday. I had to then bring up OW issues. I am at a place where I can not and will not spend time with him like that if she is in the picture at all. I told him that and said there was no right or wrong answer and no pressure but that was a boundry of mine. He said I hear you, and I understand what you are saying, do you want to go? We have agreed it's nothing more than spending time together to see if still like each other's company as we have both changed in the last few months and there is no pressure other than that.

I don't want my kids to know though, as they are already wondering why daddy and I have been talking on the phone. They are little radars and I don't want to get their hopes up. He says he doesn't ever want to hurt me and the kids again.

I have a few days to think about the boat thing.