LMG, I just thought of something that I thought of after re-reading your "plan A" comment. Before we separated, I needed my H to really try to improve our R, I needed him to look at us fairly and completely and do all sorts of things BEFORE we separated. H needed to separated in order to do those things. We were at opposite ends.
Just a thought I wanted to share.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09
